Yale Stewart apologizes after accusations of harassment

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Oh god where to begin. The short version is that Judge Dread artist Ulises Farinas calling out Yale Stewart over what Farinas deemed ill-advised charity efforts then led to Stewart, the artist of the webcomic JL8, being outed as a naked selfie sender, and then apologizing while putting his webcomic on hiatus.

 

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IT ALL STARTED when Farinas, above, who is something of an opinionated Internet user, called out Stewart’s practice of selling wallpapers themed to various events in the news for $1 with proceeds going to charity. What put Farinas over the edge was this one, which referred to the situation in Ferguson:
Farinas wrote:

Every fucking time there’s some big tragedy, this dude makes a wallpaper to benefit (insert charity) and it just looks like a shameless ploy at self promotion.
Instead of making a cutesy little wallpaper of DC heroes you don’t own, supporting media entities that already ignore brown people, that have news companies that spin a narrative that blames the victims of police brutality and not the aggressors, why don’t you just shutup and privately donate as much as you want to ACLU, whenever you want, and not just when #ferguson is all over twitter.
Putting two images of SPACE COPS as your “SUPPORT FERGUSON” wallpaper, and offering it for a DOLLAR, is fucking gross. And i hate that we can’t distinguish between support and capitalism.
You know the only reason the dollar is going to the ACLU, is he because the product he’s selling isn’t a wallpaper, its himself.

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This took place a few days, and led to a lot more back and forth and then, over Twitter, an increasing number of references to “Dick pics” with Stewart at the center, perhaps spurred by this Tweet of Farinas:


As far as The Beat can ascertain, rumors of Stewart sending unsolicited pictures of himself in a depantsed state have been around for quite a while. The new Twitter flutterings grew and grew, leading to Stewart to take down his twitter account and then announcing that he was putting JL8 on hiatus. Jl8 is a very adorable strip that Stewart has been drawing for a few years that is basically a “Lil JLA” strip. It is COMPLETELY unauthorized by DC—although Stewart was eventually hired to work on some officially licensed Capstone books featuring DC characters— and if there is one thing that amazes me about this whole thing is that he was able to get away with this for so long!

Anyway, while many people seemed to be aware of Stewart’s exhibitionist texts, it wasn’t until Unleash the Fanboy offered a spirited is muddled defense of him with a post called Ulises Farinas Is A Jealous Idiot. I Stand Behind Yale Stewart that the cries for proof got louder. And it all grew when Stewart, who lives at home, said that since the outcry began, his mother had received a threatening phone call regarding the situation.

While some doubted the accusers with the usual abuse, over night a picture of Stewart, tool in hand, was finally posted on 4chan, leading to his public apology:

Good morning.

As some of you may be aware, there have been some rumors circulating about my personal conduct with women in the comics industry. The accusation is that I’ve sent unsolicited intimate photos of myself to fans, colleagues, or possibly both.

Sexual harassment is incredibly serious business, and I believe anyone who has followed me for any period of time knows that I often speak against it. No one should be subject to such behavior. It’s invasive, disrespectful, and occasionally dangerous.

Have I sent intimate photos of myself to women before? Yes. I’ll absolutely admit to that. As a 26 year-old bachelor with a relatively healthy sex life in the internet age, these things happen. However, every photo sent was in direct response to either a photo received or a specific request.

Or so I thought.

Two years ago, I was engaged in two separate relationships with women whom I was sexually active with. Given the nature of these relationships, my experiences in past relationships, and various dialogues with these women, I thought it had been established within each relationship that intimate or explicit photos were acceptable, possibly even desired.

I GROSSLY misread the situation.

It has been brought to my attention that both of these women were uncomfortable with my behavior, and needless to say, I’m absolutely disgusted with myself. How I could so horribly misinterpret the situation confounds me, but that confusion pales in comparison to the shame of knowing that I did the very thing to these two women that I openly chastise people for on a regular basis. Also, beyond that, that these women felt this way for TWO YEARS without me knowing and attempting to make amends, which is wholly unacceptable in its own right.

I have reached out to both of these women and have made private apologies, but I felt it was my responsibility to make a public one as well. As stated earlier, I believe sexual harassment to be an incredibly serious issue, and while the harassment in question was a terrible and ignorant mistake, it does not change the fact that that’s what this was, and I accept full responsibility.

I strive to treat everyone with respect, as I feel those who know me personally or follow my comics work would attest, and as such I hope that helps frame how sorry I truly am that all of this happened. The best I can do is own up to it, acknowledge that I made an incredible error in judgement, and finally, make sure that I learn from this mistake and never repeat it moving forward.

In addition, if there’s anyone else out there who feels like I’ve made them uncomfortable, on any level, please let me know. Clearly I’ve misread situations before, and I don’t want to go years again thinking nothing’s wrong only to learn I’ve hurt someone.

Finally, I’ll be making a donation of $1000 to RAINN, as they’re an organization at the forefront of both preventing and aiding victims of sexual harassment and assault. Hopefully my small donation will in some way help them in educating even just one person, preventing another situation such as this.

My deepest, sincerest apologies to all.

-Yale

 

A couple of observation about all this:

• Sending naughty texts is a perfectly normal thing to do. Sending unsolicited pictures of your junk to people is not okay, however. It’s my understanding that Stewart had been accused of doing this for quite some time, and had seemingly unwittingly built a bad reputation over this.

• Now that’s he’s had his sensitivity raised and apologized—and made a $1000 donation to RAINN—after a suitable amount of time Stewart can concentrate on what he does best, drawing, IF HE BEHAVES HIMSELF. I don’t think there’s any real disconnect between doing a kids strip and doing adult things in other spheres of your life. As long as they don’t cross over, you’re good. Someone called Stewart the Anthony Weiner of comics and you’ll recall that Weiner—the one time NYC mayoral candidate who was caught sending pictures of his franks and beans to women while still married and running for office—tried a comeback and what stalled it is that he kept on sending pictures of his junk to people! The key to a comeback is learning from your mistakes and not harassing people any more.

• It’s shameful that the women who were on the receiving end of Stewart’s texts were doubted and tarred with the usual slurs and counter-accusations. Why is this it hard to believe that a male cartoonist would send out naked selfies? If I were to question anything in this WHOLE STORY it would be the threatening phone call because…

• WHO THE HELL TAKES TIMES TO MAKE THREATENING PHONE CALLS OVER COMIC BOOKS? Seriously this is becoming a thing now whenever there’s a comic book kerfuffle. That is also SO NOT COOL, people. Stop it, just stop it.

• Cartoonists doing shady, kinky things is nothing new. Neither is such behavior being talked about over dinners and drinks. BUT things have changed. This is the latest example of how harassment issues are played out over social media, and while I don’t see this going away any time soon, crowd justice is rough justice, so people, if you’re doing something bad and about to get caught, better to stop doing that bad thing and taking appropriate steps in private.

Comments

  1. Charles Knight says:

    Two things came out of this – following conversations on twitter (of people who use their real names not people behind fake identities)

    1) Seems to be an open secret on the circle that he was to be avoided
    2) I’ve seen at least two people make claims of this behaviour two WEEKS ago not years, so this is likely the start not the end.

    And before we go do the rabbit hole of “threats were made to his mother” – ask yourself why you take that claim on face-value but will 1000s of words asking possible victims to identify themselves and answer all of your questions.

  2. Well written.

    I do not doubt a person when they say they have been sexually harassed. I do doubt a person who says they know someone who says they were sexually harassed by someone, especially when it comes on the heels of a public event like Ulises Farina’s campaign.

    If you are on the receiving end of sexual harassment, you have to speak up for yourself immediately. No one else is going to do it for you, and not addressing just perpetuates the problems.

  3. great @ boats says:

    Not that I am in any way saying threats of violence are OK under any circumstances, but they do not appear to have been made “OVER COMIC BOOKS”, as you say, but over his sexual harassment of women, if his guilt-trip message to one of those women on Facebook is anything to go by. Again, not condoning the threats, but they’re a little bit closer to being understandable if they’re being made because his actions hurt real human beings and rather than fictional characters.

  4. scott says:

    Agree with everything but I have one other conclusion: Ulises Farinas is in fact an ass.

  5. Famous Amos Fortune says:

    “Agree with everything but I have one other conclusion: Ulises Farinas is in fact an ass.”

    Agreed. Cock Pic guy is an a-hole and deserves ridicule, but playing “Hollier than thou” and claiming DC ignores brown people (when anyone can tell that over the last 10 years DC had tried to diversify its characters even when fanboys cry about it) makes you out to be smug.

    By the way, anyone “cashing in” on the Ferguson situation when all the facts aren’t in and while people use it as excuse to loot innocent shop owners — ought to have their heads examinec

  6. Matt jeske says:

    its Judge Dredd not Judge Dread.

  7. When in doubt if accused of any wrongdoing I always use this mantra in lieu of my defense:

    “Just because I said it on Twitter or Facebook – DOESN’T mean I said it in real life.”

    And usually the problem just goes away.

    But then, I’ve never really been accused of sending out selfies of my twig and berries before.

    ~

    Coat

  8. “Agree with everything but I have one other conclusion: Ulises Farinas is in fact an ass.”

    More than that– we didn’t even hear of this from him until he started to lose the larger argument. Until then, he was evidently okay with it. Then there’s his claim that he had other images that evidently got conveniently lost. He’s in this industry, he knows how big this issue is, so make no mistake that he did this solely to torpedo the other artists career, not because he has any high minded worry about the women who received the images. Yale has made an apology, and hopefully has learned from his experience, but I’ll never purchase another book that has Farinas’ name on it.

  9. Charles Knight says:

    Is it much of an apology when ever day you have to issue a new one recanting part of the last one – the latest one has just gone up?

    Its not an apology if you have to keep doing it because your story keeps changing

  10. Dave Miller-lad says:

    That’s no way to tweet a lady.

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